Do Men Really Like “Bitches”?


Have you read that book called “Why men love bitches”? I did not. Because am not interested in those kinds of books anyways. It’s like in that movie,the Ugly Truth,when Mike Shadway (Gerard Butler) said”Millions and millions wasted on this bullshit,you wanna be  lonely then that’s fine,keep reading these stupid books”.

I had a friend on Facebook who posted that link ,about why men love bitches. This is like a short review of the book,as to why men are attracted to stronger women.I can say this can be understood as mere “generalizing” in categorizing men.

Do you think that men of all races think the same? Sure not. Hispanic men can be different from American ones,who can be different from Europeans,who can be different from Arabs ,who can be different from Asians!

How men were brought up in different geographical locations makes it hard to generalize and say that men prefer stronger women.

To illustrate my point, Arab men beg to differ, they always claim and hang on to this old proverb that : The strength of a woman,lies in her weakness. The more weak and vulnerable you are,the better you’re perceived.They tend to mock women with high aspirations,determination to reach their goals,and those who have opinions of their own and tend not to join the bandwagon.

While some of them claim that they’re different,that they do admire strong women,when the time comes for them to step up and propose,they chicken out and choose someone who can be easier for them to deal with.They might call stronger women as  high maintenance.

But I don’t want to be unfair,There are those who like their wives to be successful,push them to do better,and think that his wife’s success,is his success too. In other words,they’re not threatened,they’re secure with their masculinity. (But they are the minority in the Arab world).

Men are not identical duplicates from each other…

Their personalities are different

Their ethnic group says a lot about how they think and behave

Their history and upbringing determines their choices

Some men love strong women,some men love vulnerable and weak women. Why on earth would you bother yourself and try to fit into someone’s criteria of perfect?

You are who you are,regardless of how long you fake your inner strength. Nobody can live a lie forever you know. So instead of wasting all this time and energy,be yourself,act normally and don’t hide behind a fake mask that you’ve created. You might impress someone,when you don’t try to impress them in the first place.

That’s just how I think.

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6 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. rawmultimedia
    Jun 26, 2011 @ 16:03:43

    I agree with you…I think most men are just curious creatures and likes to experiment. Not saying its all right, but hey. People are who they are.
    kudos.
    Richardo.

    Reply

  2. Yasmine Wael
    Jun 26, 2011 @ 21:42:58

    Yep, and you know,they’re free to experiment what they want! and its meaningless for a book author generalize and say men prefer stronger women….

    Cheers:)

    Reply

  3. MyWordsWhisper
    Jun 30, 2011 @ 06:11:46

    Yasmine – The most important thing is to keep them guessing…it keeps them interested! 😉

    I am enjoying your blog.

    Reply

  4. rassel
    Aug 05, 2011 @ 19:46:02

    all men love bitches its mean they love every woman
    they not like one woman they like more than one

    Reply

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